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"Creating Healthy and Secure Relationships from the Inside Out."

Reignite Your Relationship & Build Lasting Connection

Feeling stuck in your relationship can be overwhelming. You may find yourself questioning how things drifted apart—when the person you once shared dreams, laughter, and deep love with now feels like a distant stranger. It’s frustrating, discouraging, and at times, even hopeless.

But here’s the truth: You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t beyond repair. You don’t need to place blame—you just need the right tools.

At The TAPE Repair Institute, we guide couples through a transformative process that turns conflict into connection and brings clarity to what went wrong. With the right approach, you can:

Set goals that move you forward into a thriving, secure attachment.
Understand the brain and emotional reactivity, so you can respond with intention, not impulse.
Learn effective communication-based interventions that build emotional depth and trust.
Gain clarity on past patterns and create a shared understanding of each other’s needs.

Healing is possible. Growth is within reach. If you're ready to rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and develop a relationship that lasts, you’re in the right place. Let’s take the first step together.

Who We Are

Welcome to The TAPE Repair Institute - Empowering through the TAPE Repair Framework

At The TAPE Repair Institute, we are dedicated to helping couples build stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships through our unique approach, the TAPE Repair Framework. Our mission is to guide couples, and families through their challenges, heal emotional wounds, and create lasting connection by addressing the core aspects of trauma, attachment, patterns, and emotional integrity.

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What is the TAPE Repair Framework?

The TAPE Repair Framework is a holistic, trauma-informed approach designed to help couples, and families navigate relationship challenges by focusing on four critical areas:

T-Trauma

Many relationships struggles stem from unresolved emotional wounds, whether they are rooted in past relationships, childhood experiences, or individual trauma. The TAPE Repair Framework helps couples understand the impact of trauma on their relationship and provides tools for healing and emotional recovery.

A-Attachment

Attachment theory plays a crucial role in how we form relationships and manage emotional bonds. By understanding each partner’s attachment style (secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized), couples can learn to create secure emotional connections and navigate emotional distance or conflict in a healthier way.

P-Patterns

Couples often find themselves stuck in negative, recurring cycles of behavior—whether it’s arguments, misunderstandings, or emotional withdrawal. The TAPE framework focuses on identifying these intergenerational patterns and provides strategies for interrupting them, enabling them to build healthier communication habits and behaviors and break the cycle of conflict.

E-Emotional Integrity

Emotional integrity is about being emotionally honest, open, and accountable in a relationship. This aspect of the TAPE framework emphasizes the importance of emotional vulnerability, building trust, and communicating with empathy and respect. By nurturing emotional integrity, couples foster deeper intimacy, connection, and a stronger sense of partnership.

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Who Can Benefit from the TAPE Repair Framework?

Those Facing Communication Breakdowns: If you’re finding it difficult to talk through issues without escalating into conflict, the TAPE framework will help you improve communication and emotional connection.
Those Struggling with Emotional Distance: If you feel like you’re growing apart or can’t seem to get on the same page, the TAPE framework can help you rebuild intimacy and reconnect emotionally.
Those Who Have Experienced Trauma: If past emotional wounds, whether individual or shared, are impacting your relationship, this framework helps you heal together.
Those Seeking Long-Term Relationship Growth: If you want to strengthen your relationship and grow together as a team, the TAPE framework provides tools for building lasting resilience, trust, and emotional connection.

Ready to Make a Change?

Schedule a free consultation today and let's explore how The TAPE Repair Life Institute can help you create the life and relationship you truly desire.

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What We Offer:

At The TAPE Repair Institute, we offer tailored seminars, workshops, 1-3 Day Intensives, Individual and group coaching, conferences and retreats using the TAPE Repair Framework to meet the unique needs of each couple. Our offerings include:

1. Individual and Group Coaching:

Personalized sessions with experienced relationship coaches to work through your challenges, deepen your emotional connection, and create actionable goals for lasting change.

2. Workshops & Intensives:

Group workshops and 1-3 Day intensives designed to give individuals, couples and families the tools they need to heal, communicate effectively, and break negative intergenerational patterns. These sessions provide a safe, supportive environment for individuals, couples and families to learn and grow together.

3. Ongoing Support:

We offer continued support through follow-up coaching, group check-ins, and access to resources to ensure that the tools and strategies learned during coaching or workshops are successfully implemented in your daily life.

4. Conferences and Retreats

Immersive weekend retreats and conferences providing a concentrated environment for deep emotional work, connection-building, and the development of a shared healing roadmap.

Why choose us

We're trusted!

Experienced Relationship Coaches & Licensed Therapists: Our team of relationship coaches and therapists are skilled in using the TAPE Repair Framework and have years of experience helping couples build healthier relationships.
Personalized Support: We understand that every individual, couple and family is unique, so we offer person-centered services designed to address your specific challenges and goals.
Comprehensive & Holistic Approach: By addressing trauma, attachment issues, patterns, and emotional integrity, we offer a well-rounded, effective approach to relationship healing.
Proven Results: Our clients experience improved communication, deeper emotional connection, and a greater sense of partnership. We’ve helped countless couples and families restore intimacy, resolve conflict, and build the relationship they desire.

The Tape Repair's Coaching Program

Welcome to The Tape Repair Coaching

How the Coaching Process Works:

Initial Consultation:
We start with a free 20-minute consultation where we discuss your relationship goals, current challenges, and how the TAPE Repair Framework can help you reach your goals. This is an opportunity for you to learn more about the process and determine if it’s the right fit for you.
Customized Coaching Plan:
After your consultation, we’ll create a personalized coaching plan based on your unique needs, goals, and challenges. This plan will be designed to help you heal emotional wounds, understand your attachment style, and break any negative patterns in your life.
Ongoing Coaching Sessions:
We’ll schedule intensive and meet regularly for individual coaching sessions where we dive deep into your emotional landscape. Together, we’ll work through trauma, attachment, and patterns, and develop strategies to enhance your emotional integrity.
Actionable Tools and Strategies:
Each session will provide you with specific tools, exercises, and strategies to apply in your life, helping you build a foundation of emotional health and self-awareness. These include journaling prompts, guided reflections, and relationship skills exercises.
Continued Support:
Along the way, you’ll receive continued support through check-ins, resources, and accountability to ensure your growth continues. You’ll also have access to additional resources such as books, articles, and relationship guides to reinforce the coaching process.

meet the founder

My Background

Sommer Ewing LMFT, is a leading Marriage and Family Therapist recognized for her authority in addressing complex family dynamics, trauma, and attachment wounds. She is the founder of the TAPE Repair Framework, a practical approach that examines Trauma, Attachment, Patterns, and Emotional Integrity to promote lasting change. Drawing on extensive clinical experience with over two decades in the mental health field, Sommer specializes in guiding individuals, couples, and families through unresolved trauma and intergenerational patterns, helping them develop healthier communication and emotional resilience.

In her work with individuals, couples and families, she emphasizes the crucial role of secure attachments and empathy, combining evidence-based therapies and coaching with tailored interventions that address maladaptive behaviors. Her collaborative style integrates trauma-informed care and systemic family treatment, ensuring that each family member feels heard and supported.

Through workshops, keynote presentations, and ongoing clinical research, Sommer continues to influence the field of marriage and family therapy, inspiring professionals to adopt a more nuanced and compassionate framework for family healing. Her dedication to helping families break negative cycles and foster enduring connections has solidified her reputation as a trusted expert and innovator in her sphere of influence.

Reignite Your Relationship & Build Lasting Connection

"YOU HAVE NO IDEA YOUR SIMILIARITES BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER AND YOUR DIFFERENCES WILL HELP YOU GROW!"

Who We Are

Welcome to The TAPE Repair Institute - Empowering through the TAPE Repair Framework

The Tape repair

What is the TAPE Repair Framework?

T-Trauma

A-Attachment

P-Patterns

E-Emotional Integrity

Transform Your Life Today!

Who Can Benefit from the TAPE Repair Framework?

Ready to Make a Change?

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What We Offer:

Why choose us

We're trusted!

The Tape Repair's Coaching Program

Welcome to The Tape Repair Coaching

How the Coaching Process Works:

meet the founder

My Background

"Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the wounds no longer control your life—or your relationships."

You cannot afford to wait any longer...

Your RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS on it!

Transform Your Relationships Today:

Hear from our happy customers!

Contact Us

Questions or Comments?

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Reignite Your Relationship & Build Lasting Connection

"YOU HAVE NO IDEA YOUR SIMILIARITES BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER AND YOUR DIFFERENCES WILL HELP YOU GROW!"

Who We Are

Welcome to The TAPE Repair Institute - Empowering through the TAPE Repair Framework

The Tape repair

What is the TAPE Repair Framework?

T-Trauma

A-Attachment

P-Patterns

E-Emotional Integrity

Transform Your Life Today!

Who Can Benefit from the TAPE Repair Framework?

Ready to Make a Change?

TAPE Repair

What We Offer:

Why choose us

We're trusted!

The Tape Repair's Coaching Program

Welcome to The Tape Repair Coaching

How the Coaching Process Works:

meet the founder

My Background

"Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the wounds no longer control your life—or your relationships."

You cannot afford to wait any longer...

Your RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS on it!

Transform Your Relationships Today:

Hear from our happy customers!

Contact Us

Questions or Comments?

The Tape Repair

Hours

Get in Touch

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